Rules of communication with unfamiliar people for preschoolers. Rules of behavior with unfamiliar people

Yalginsky Children's House-School

Rules for communication

from unfamiliar people

Prepared: Libysova T.I.,

educator of family number 1

Objectives: Teach children with proper, safe behavior with unfamiliar people; Forming the ability to fulfill the rules of behavior with unfamiliar people.

Tasks: to tell that the rules of communication with familiar and unfamiliar people should be different; explain what caution is and how to be able to comply with it in the right situations to ensure its safety;

1. Conversation on the topic.

How do you understand the expression "unfamiliar man"?

(Unknown; such about which there is no information).

Who can you call a familiar person?

(A friend - the one who knew before, known).

Is there a danger when communicating with familiar people? With strangers?

Remember what cases of communicating with unfamiliar people were in your life, where it happened, as they did then, and think how would they do now?

The stranger is any person who comes to you on the street or comes to the house in the absence of adults and trying to speak with you (sometimes calls you by name.) Sometimes a meeting with a stranger can be dangerous to health and life.

Let's call the quality that will help us to protect yourself from dangers?

(Caution).

What does it mean to be careful?

(Careful - providing for possible danger, not reckless).

How to communicate unfamiliar people?

Let's add suggestions and make caution rules when communicating with unfamiliar people.

Do not believe…

Do not follow ...

Do not get into the car ...

Do not invite home ...

Do not boast friends ...

Do not delay the dothemna ...

Remember the rules of behavior with unfamiliar people.

• Do not go anywhere with unfamiliar people.
• Do not sit in someone else's car.
• With the onset of darkness go home.
• Do not change the return route from school home.
• Always tell adults about your plans for the day.
• Small children should not walk around the city without adults.

Let us discuss various situations of communication with unfamiliar people.

1. You are one at home, call the door. You open the door ...

2. You are one at home, call the door. You ask: "Who is there?". Behind the door answer that they came to test the gas. Your actions?

3. Outside the street unfamiliar man And asks to hold it, show some street. Your actions?

4. A stranger spoke to you. What to do?

(Apologize and pass by. Do not join the conversation, whatever you say (invite to play, watch a film, listen to music, offer to show a dog or other animals), because no one can explain all the tricks of the villain in advance. Do not rude, do The view that do not hear the words facing you).

And if you do not depart?

(It is necessary to break down and shout: "I don't know it!". Let it hear others adults. They will help and cause the militia).

5. An unfamiliar man on the street asks you to buy him in the cigarette kiosk. Your actions?

6. Neighbor Aunt Lyuba asks to buy products for her in the store. Your actions?

The reasons for choosing the guys of certain solutions in various situations of communication are analyzed. It is specified in which situations should be careful.

The educator summarizes the discussion of situations, reads a poem.

Do not open the door unfamiliar

Words and gifts do not trust

Say: "Soon mom comes from work,

Herself if you need, you have a door of heating. "

Play in the yard near the house,

Play on a familiar platform,

But construction and street - not for the game!

And the rule is for all the defers.

I wear the keys to the apartment

And I do not ask the door to open anyone.

I do not trust my key,

After all, he wakes my doors!

Treat us often

Just remember every time:

Take a treat only at acquaintances,

And not in strangers, with the form of modest and good.

2. Outcome classes.

Draw prohibitive signs that could be used in communication situations with unfamiliar people.

Literature

1. Education of schoolchildren. - 2008. - № 2. - p. 46.

2. Zuzhik: Additional educational program For students junior School / COST: Kalinichenko TN, Serdyuk E.I., Slice N.N., Kovalevskaya L.I. // Children's health. 2009. - № 3.

Elena Cheaakina
An abstract classes "Rules of behavior when communicating with unfamiliar people"

purpose: Teach children rightSafe behavior when meeting with

unfamiliar people.

Tasks:

Consider and discuss with children Typical dangerous situations

possible contacts S. unfamiliar people, when non-compliance with security measures.

Promote caution, attention, smelting. Contribute to raising a responsible attitude towards your life.

Develop the ability to find a way out of the situation. Rail in children independence, self-confidence. To acquaint with the relationship of adults and children.

Materials and equipment: Situational sciences for discussion ( unfamiliar Adult calls on the door; calls on the phone; offers child candy); Illustrations for fairy tales "Golden Key", "The wolf and the seven Young goats", "Kolobok", "Zyushkina Hut", "Little Red Riding Hood", sheets of paper, color pencils (for the manufacture of memo)

Preliminary work: view illustrations from "Alphabets of health", read book "If at home you are alone," viewing a cartoon "Squash I. unfamiliar people» , "Tetushka's lessons owls".

Travel course:

1 Surprise moment

Guys, this morning, when I came, the guard handted me this parcel. I decided that we should open it together, all are ready? Then I open! (we open, find a letter there from Locking, many books and pictures).

2 Basic part

I read the letter.

"Hello, friends! I had a difficult situation, I gave me a bunch of tasks and left that I just did not do, but cope I could not have been with them. Guys help me please find right answers»

Well, guys will help Link?

1 task: Explain to me who is "Your, alien, familiar"

Vlad, who, in your opinion, can be called your own?

What does Katya think about this?

How do you understand the meaning of the word "His" You, Andrei?

Misha, I see what you want to say something.

What word is the opposite "His"?

Who it "Alien"?

Is there a person - neither his own and someone else? (children's responses).

Who can be called familiar?

What a friend is different from close manand what - from "Alien"Strying (children's responses).

Stand at a short distance from each other, form a circle. The game is called "Familiar, your own, strangers". I say words "Familiar, your own, strangers", highlighting the intonation and the pause of the one who needs to be called, after which I throw some of the ball. That whom the ball is thrown, must catch it and quickly call the relevant person. (I play with children several times).

Sit down more comfortably.

I am your friend. He offered you to play and you glanly agreed.

If you will suggest someone else's person as you do?

Why do you do that?

What looks like dangerous man?

Who can not be afraid? Describe appearance.

Is it always a nice appearance mean and good intentions?

What kind of people can be dangerous? (children's responses).

Output: Dangerous can be beautiful and ugly strangers men, women, boys and girls, grandparents and grandmothers.

I suggest you to look and analyze several situations.

First situation: Educator in the role of someone else's unfamiliar man, Lasko smiling comes to the child.

Hello, boy. Can you help me? You see, Zaverki sell around the corner. I want to buy my grandson, but I do not know if they are suitable. Your leg is the same as he has. Let's go, try? (Takes).

IN:- What do you think, will Vadim arrived correctly? Why?

What was supposed to say Vadim unfamiliar aunt? (I will go with you to try on the boots only with my mother. She is now suitable).

Situation Second: Entering unfamiliar man. Suitable to Nastya. Hello, Nastya. What are you doing here? I work with your dad. Sit down, I will lean you home. Nastya sits.

Did the man knew Nastya?

Where could he find out the name? (He could ask the nasty friends or to overhear how close people are called).

How should Nastya come?

(Nastya was supposed to say: "It's good that you work with my dad, but I do not know you and therefore I will not go anywhere"; "You can run away from stranger» ; "You will pester, scream.")

Situation of the third. Hello, baby. How are you? Delicate candy. Do you like sweets? Let's just buy.

Do you need to take from unfamiliar people even thenWhat do you want to get? Why not?

How then will refuse tempting offers? (Need to to tell: "Thank you very much, but I don't want sweets or toys").

Output: Each of you must remember what to trust only close people, and unfamiliar A person can be dangerous, can cause great harm. For example, separated with adults, scare, so you can not succumb to the persuasion of other people's people.

It seems to me that you should repeat what each of you should remember. (Children repeat regulations) .

I realized that you remember how to behave with unfamiliar people.

I think we created with the task! Go to the next

2 task: Name too gullible heroes of these fairy tales, which were in such situations and they behaved wrong. (I get a book)

(Buratino

showed gold coins unfamiliar And agreed to go with them to the country of fools. He did not even think about the dangers that could be happening to him)

How did you need to do? (Children's responses)

"The wolf and the seven Young goats"

What a dangerous situation occurred here?

(Catsmen succumbed to the wolf's persuasion and opened the door. The wolf ate a kids)

How did you need to do? (Children's responses)

"Kolobok"

What wrong Delal the main character this fairy tale?

(Kolobok was an irresponsible hero, did not listen to anyone. Talked with the animals unknown to him. Because of the stupidity of the Kolobka, the end of this fairy tale was not very good. Lisa ate a kolobka.)

"Zyushkina Hut"

Who will say, what situation arose here?

(The hare tried to the cunning fox, which he subsequently drove out of the hut. He believed fox and what happened to him.)

And the last fairy tale I suggests to discuss is

"Little Red Riding Hood"

Recall this fairy tale and discuss the situations that took place with the heroes.

Meeting of red hats and wolf.

(The heroine of fairy tales began to talk with unfamiliar to her wolf, told where and why goes. It was impossible to do this.)

Grandmother believed Wolf and allowed to go to the house. What happened in the end? Wolf ate grandmother. It is impossible to believe each oncoming.

Another situation: Meeting a red hat and disguised wolf. The girl did not carefully accepted the wolf for her grandmother and trusting with him talked, for which he paid. He ate her too.

As you can see the guys, fairy tales, though, the fiction of the writer, but there is a lot of useful in them, there is such a proverb "The fairy tale is a lie, yes in it hint, good young lesson". This means that every tale teaches something.

3 Task: What is this situation and how to behave?

picture - a person calls on the phone

Look at the picture that you can say about this situation. (Answers)

It happens that a dangerous person calls on the phone and asks you about who is in the house, as you call and when parents return.

For what bad person will learn everything?

What do you need to answer by phone?

-RightYou can not communicate on the phone that you are one at home, your name and the more address.

Guys listen to proverbs that are suitable for this situation.

"Secret Light"

"Keep your mouth shut"

"Who chatting a lot - Bed is stuck"

What are these proverbs about?

picture - a person calls the door

What do you need to do if you call on the door? (Children's responses)

And if a person behind the door says that he is a postman? Policeman? Familiar your parents and calls you by name? (Children's responses)

We remember the guys that no one cannot open the door to people who you do not know.

Now we will play a game that is called

"Finished poem".

Rule: You need to insert missing words into the poem.

Do not let uncle in the house

If uncle do not know!

And do not open aunt

If mom at work,

After all, the criminal he is heter

Will pretend that ... (Montior)

Or even say he

What came to you ... (postman)

He will show you a package.

And under the arm .... (pistol).

Or he put on a bathrobe

And under it, five pieces ... (Garnet)

And in a hurry "Old woman",

She has in Avoska ... (a gun).

Everything happens in life

With those who do the door ... (opens).

So that you did not rock

Did not grab, not stolen,

Strangers you do not believe,

Close Run ... (Door!

picture - the stranger offers confet

Consider the following picture.

The boy walks on the street, approached him unfamiliar Man and offers for example candy. How to do? Why? (Children's responses)

And if a person says that he has a kitten in the car and calls to see what you will do? (Children's responses)

And ride eat with stranger? (Children's responses)

-Right, never need to take anything unfamiliar people, Moreover, get into the car and go somewhere.

It happens that a person calls not in the car, but in some place. It is impossible to follow his call. Who knows that this person has on the mind.

Guys what will be done if unfamiliar A person will try somewhere to lead you by force? (Children's responses)

That's what to do. Criminals afraid of noise, so in all these cases it is necessary to scream loudly to be surrounding understandably: You are trying to lead unfamiliar people!

for example: "Uncle, I do not know you! Let me go!", "Help, take me away unfamiliar man!»

Do not be afraid that you will laugh at you. If this helps to avoid danger, then all right. Worse, if you are ashamed or scared. You can get into trouble.

About everything that happens in your life, you must tell parents. They must definitely know with what situations you encounter. Parents will always help and teach how correct.

3 Reflexes

Guys, copened We are with the tasks, helped figure out Link? And helping LinkWhat new learned?

Answers children:

You can not open the door unfamiliarif there are no adults.

It is impossible to talk about the fact that you are alone in the house.

You can not talk on the phone with others people, call them your name and address.

It is impossible to take anything unfamiliar people, get to them into the car or walk with them somewhere.

You need to trust parents, tell them everything that happens to you.

It is necessary not to be shy to scream and call for help in case of danger.

Children, we talked about how to behave when meeting with strangers. You all actively participated in our conversation, everyone understood. I'm sure you are ready to meet with strangers and go wrong.

And now I suggest you to draw a memo, about the danger of meeting with unfamiliar peopleTo give them to the guys from other groups.

Children are usually very sociable, they rejoice in every new acquaintance, but you need to strictly follow that the acquaintance is suitable. How to explain to the child in what cases you can and when you can not get acquainted?

Parents usually introduce children with adults of children, and this is perhaps the most correct way to make friends among the elders. There are a number important ruleswho should follow the children when meeting with unfamiliar adults.

Rules of safe behavior

It is impossible:

• talk with strangers and let them in the apartment.
• go with a stranger in an elevator and an entrance.
• sit into the car to strangers.
• gifts from unfamiliar people and agree on their proposal to go with them.
• lay out on the street after school.

In what situations should always be answered NOT!»:

• If you are offered to visit or ride to the house, even if it is neighbors.
• If an unfamiliar person came in the absence of parents, let him in the apartment or go somewhere somewhere.
• If a stranger came to school for you, and the parents did not warn about it in advance.
• If a stranger treats something with the goal to meet and spend time with you.

To all persuasions go somewhere in a secluded place to see something or play, you need to answer " Not!", Even if it is very interesting.

• Come home, it is necessary to tell adults about this person.

What you need to know not to become a victim?

• If you have at least the slightest doubt in a person who is nearby, or something is alerted something, then it is better to move and skip this person ahead.
• If a person is not lagging behind you, come to any house and pretend that this is your home, put your hand and call relatives who seem to see in the window.
• If you are asked how to find the street, explain how to walk, but in no case there is no case.
• If you are trying to persuade, answer that you need to go home and warn parents, tell them where you are going to.
• If the stranger offers you to see something or help bring a bag, promising to pay, answer "no!".
• If you were offered to participate in an interesting competition Or a television program, do not agree, but asking when and where you can come together with your parents.
• If the car slows next next to you, you can go out and in no way go into it.

Where are the criminals to wait for their victims?

ON THE STREET!
If a stranger sticks to you:

• Tell me that they are in a hurry and you can not talk.
• If a person is not lagging behind you, try to go to the roadway and approach people, in no case come in quiet courtyards, and even more so - in other people's incidents. If you have a cell phone with you, call your parents or acquaintances, say loudly, where you are, and ask you to meet.
• Do not wait when he grab you.
• If you can, quit anything in the face of the attacker, to bring it into confusion for a while and distract.
• Run aside, where many people.
• Use any subsidiary tools: handle, calcination or keys (vozy in the face, in foot or hand of the attacker); Any aerosol (direct a stream in the eyes); Heel (heavily stuck heel on the foot of the attacker).
• Take our best, do not swing with random hands. We must cause the attacker maximum pain.
• As soon as he will weaken the grip - run away.
• If you are a few attackers, and it always happens - do not let yourself hold yourself into the ring.
• Loudly shouts "Help" to attract attention. People with such screams can help, or call the police.
• If you pp your mouth with your hand, strongly bite your hand.
• If you are trying to surround - run to the road, if you find yourself on the road - cars will be forced to stop, and the driver can help to drive off offenders. The main thing is not to jump under the wheels.

Rules of behavior on the street:

• Going along the road, choose the route so to go to meet transport.
• If you have to go in the evening alone, step quickly and confidently and do not show fear; You can approach the woman who causes confidence, or to an elderly couple and go close to them.
• In the bus, trolleybus, tram sit closer to the driver and come out of the car at the last moment, without showing in advance that the next stop is yours.
• Do not vote on the road and do not answer the offer to ride or at the request.
• In no case do not sit in the car to show the way.
• Do not go to remote and deserted places.
• Go down the street in dark time In the group of people published from the bus, electric trains.
• Seeing a suspicious group of people or drunk ahead, it is better to go to the other side of the street or change the route.
• If a car stopped next to you, you can go away from him as much as possible (they can sit by force and take) and in no case talk to people in the car, and even more so do not agree to sit in it.
• If the car begins to slowly move alongside, get away from it and go to the other side.
• Always warn relatives about where you are going, and ask them to meet in the evening.
• It is advisable to go to school or from school.

In someone else's car!
The car can also become an instrument of a criminal. It is necessary to clearly know that it is impossible to sit in someone else's car, even if a woman sits behind the wheel or in the cabin.
Conduct rules:

• Try not to get on the passing machine, it is better to use a taxi service, which is caused through the dispatcher.
• If you still get in a passing car or stopped on a taxi street, ask you to write down a room, brand. Do not get into the car with dark glasses, as well as in the car in which passengers are already sitting.
• If you have a cell phone, try to constantly talk to relatives (acquaintances) and report the route of movement.
• If the driver's behavior is unpleasant to you, it seems strange or dangerous, ask to stop the car.
• If the request is not completed and the car is not stopped, then open the door or try to smash the window, that is, do everything to attract the attention of other drivers to the car.
• Do not agree to the driver's offer to take travelers, and if he insists, ask to drive a little further and get out of the car.

In the entrance!

• Going to home, pay attention whether anyone follows.
• If someone goes - do not come to the entrance. Take a walk on the street for 15-20 minutes, and if the stranger continues to go behind, tell me about it to anyone who matured an adult, going to meet.
• If there is an intercom in the house, before entering the entrance to call your apartment and ask parents to meet.
• If the stranger is already in the stairwell, immediately go out and wait when someone from adult tenants will enter the entrance.
• Do not go out on the stairs lately. The garbage is better to endure in the morning.
• With a sudden attack, appreciate the situation and, if possible, run away or defend in any way.

IN THE ELEVATOR!

• Come in the elevator, just making sure that there is no foreign one on the site, which will go to the cabin after you.
• If there is already an unfamiliar person in the lift caused, do not go into the cabin.
• If the stranger was still in the elevator, turn to his face and observe his actions.
• If you feel danger, click the button of the nearest floor.
• If the elevator doors opened, rushing to the platform, call residents at home to help.
• Being security, immediately call the police, report what happened, the exact address, as well as the signs and the direction where the attacker gone.

And if it still failed to break out, it is necessary to act in circumstances:

• If the rapist presses your mouth and removes clothes, do not threaten him to tell all parents or militia, do not cry, keep calm, try to involve the rapist in the conversation.
• If the rapist presses you to themselves, do not repel it, hug and very bite behind the nose or a lip.
• If you can - defend any ways, if you have the opportunity to run, do not collect things, run away, as is.

Rules of behavior in their home:

You can not let in the apartment of an unfamiliar person !!!

If a plumber or an electrician came without a call before letting it, call the dispatch, serving your home and insend references or call parents.

Before opening the door, be sure to look at the door eye. Introduce in the apartment only well-known people.

Leaving the apartment, also look into the eyes. If there are unfamiliar people on the staircase, wait until they leave.

Even if you leave the apartment on a very a short time, Be sure to close the door to the key.

Before opening a key entrance door, Evil that there is no one nearby.

If you brought a parcel, a telegram or an account from the post office, then you need to sign that only adults can be made. The same applies to the electrician and plumber. Even if at home suddenly suddenly went out the light or broke through the pipe, you can call parents, and find out how to do. As a last resort, you can ask the neighbors who have long been familiar.

If, returning home, you feel that you are pursued, do not come to the house, but come back to a crowded place, and ask for help or call you to meet you.

Basic rules for safe behavior that parents must instill their children

Children should not:

• get acquainted on the street with outsiders,
• speak unfamiliar people their home address and telephone
• walk in unbelievable places for this
• walk in remote places without adult accompaniment and a well-known person to you
• to bring home to other people's things, even if they claim that they simply found them on the street.

Basic rules, which will strengthen the safety of your children:

• Even if you live in my area not the first year, regularly go around the surrounding yards and see where your children walk and what they do there. Integet to your child, in what place it walks, and periodically check that it is located there.
• Feel free to demand from structures serving your home areas, ensuring the safety of children. In the evening, the courtyards in the courtyards should not be "dark corners". The whole territory should be well covered. If the playground has a fencing, there should always be two wickets in it so that the child always has additional opportunity Leave the platform in case of danger.
• Feel free to get acquainted with your parents of your children, even if it is unpleasant to you. Exchange with them phone numbers. Always have these numbers at hand, as well as the numbers of the nearest police station and your district inspector. Instruct your child to contact in case of danger. Tell him the phone of the nearest police station and your precinct.
• If the child is still small (10-14 years old), but he already has mobile phone, periodically check the SMS messages saved in the phone, as well as his notebook for the appearance of suspicious contacts. Ask the mobile operator that serves the phone number of your child, the availability of the service "Determining the location of the subscriber". If such a service is, plug your baby's mobile phone to it.
• If the child told you that he signed up in a circle, a club in interest, or computer Club, do not be lazy to visit this institution. Ask, who leads this club who follows it in order, the work schedule and the presence of relevant licenses.

If your child has an adult friend
If a child has an adult friend, delicately find out what kind of person it is, under what circumstances acquaintance occurred, and what exactly binds them. It is possible that the child is simply interested in something that you do not suspect. In no case should you try to resolve the situation, if you do not like, radical methods. Remember that no prohibitive impact measures will help. They will only complicate your family relationships. Better think why this happened and what the child lacks. Be sure to get acquainted with this person, find out where he works and who else is in the circle of his communication. If a person is represented by an employee of a children's institution, be sure to make sure that. With the slightest suspicions of the crime, consult the police.

If you suspect something
Moving around the city, look at the places of cluster of children (adolescents): cafes, playgrounds, entertainment centers. If you notice suspicious people (not like behavior on parents), communicating with children, spend half an hour of your personal time, and try to understand what really happens. If confidence arose that the process of seduction and man takes place leads the child (this may be noticeable by behavior), pay attention to this the security service of the institution, call 102.

Most small children are trusting and easy to come to contact with unfamiliar people. There are often cases when the attackers simply lead to future victims from playgrounds. Featuring parents - protect the baby from dangerous strangers. And for this you need to teach him to react to attention on their part.

To tell the child about risks associated with unfamiliar people, you can at any age. But to understand you and adequately apply the knowledge gained in practice, he will be able to about three years. At this age, the child is already able to reason, but is still very naive and trusting. It is not very naive and trusting. After all, it is necessary to prohibit any communication with strangers in your absence. It is necessary to explain that when you're near, baby safe and can talk to who wants. If you are not - talking and even more so to leave someone dangerous.

In no case can the child be scared that bad behavior He will take his uncle with a bag or Baba Yaga. In the event that a stranger really grably grabbies, he can dry and disagree what to do or perceive the abduction as a punishment for disobedience, and not even try to free themselves.

Children younger age It is difficult to perceive serious information on the rumor. In order for the baby to remember how to behave properly, the most dangerous situations can be depicted in a game form. For this, parents can show the kidnappers themselves or play dolls with a child.

Most children are even relative to adults, in 6-8 years old naive believe that dangerous strangers are terrible and from the very beginning they seem suspicious. Explain that the attacker can be quite nice and even a Toddler's one year old. Therefore, dangerous not only when the child is enough and dragged in an unknown direction, but when:

• Offer to ride a car or go to buy candies;
• Ask to help catch a lost kitten or show needed Home;
• Call on the door and asked to open on behalf of the electrician, plumbing, etc.;
• They say that mom was delayed and asked a colleague or a friend to pick up a child from the site or school.

The child should understand that any communication with strangers is potentially dangerous, so you should always follow the instructions of the parents in such a situation.

Rules for the child's behavior with unfamiliar people

Each child, which at least for a minute remains unattended by parents or other adults, should know the rules that will help him avoid danger when communicating with strangers:

• Never go anywhere with unfamiliar people. We are talking not only about adults, it can be children. If new boy In the playground, it says that in the neighboring yard is more fun and offers to go to see, you need to refuse. If an unfamiliar girl says that it is afraid to pass by the dog near the house and asks to spend, do not do this.
• Not to open the door to strangers. Whoever they see and whatever they say, it is necessary to immediately call their parents and tell about it. If there are neighbors at home, you can call them and ask to figure out.
• Do not allow unfamiliar people to touch yourself. If a person approaches or stretches his hand, it is better to run away immediately.
• Do not approach other heavy cars and all the more not to sit in them. If the driver or passenger is asked to show the way, this can be done, indicating the direction by hand from afar.

All parents try to grow children with good and responsive. But for the sake of his security, you need to tell the child that he is not obliged to help an unfamiliar person, even if this requires a social media. For example, a cute old woman asks to help her bring purchases to a nearby house. Of course, a well-brought up child will want to help his grandmother. But much safer will advise the elderly woman to ask for help from someone from adults and call parents by going to a safe distance.

The child should clearly remember the algorithm of actions in case a stranger speaks with him:

• Evaluation of the situation. The child should know that any stranger is potentially dangerous. But, if he is in a well-known place and parents near, and a person does not attempt to approach, you can not panic ahead of time.
• Compliance with distance. It is usually more or less secure consider a distance of two meters. Show the child as it is, measuring the centimeter ribbon on the floor, and explain that if a person is approaching, it is necessary to move or run away from it.
• Termination of communication. Most attackers are good psychologists, they know how to find an approach to the child and speak him, touching vigilance. Therefore, for any attempts to start a conversation, children must answer "now I will ask your parents" or something like that, to move to a safe distance and / or call adults.
• Care. If the stranger tries to impose talk or lead the child, he must immediately stop the conversation and leave a dangerous place. But it is necessary to do it carefully. If in order to get home, the child must go into an empty entrance, dark monitor, etc., it is better not to risk, and approach familiar adults and talk about the situation. If there is no familiar anyone nearby, you can ask for help from a police station, a security guard or a seller in the store, anyone who is clearly not related to the alleged attacker.

The most dangerous - if the attacker has already grabbed the child and drags. Tell us that in this case you should not only try to free yourself by any ways, but also call for help. Be sure to shout that it is a foreign person, and he kidnaps the child, otherwise the surrounding can consignment as a joke or a family scene.

Try to tell the child as you can tell about the hazards that lie. It does not mean intimidating, it is necessary to warn and prepare. Remember that your story can save the child life.

General changes in our public life caused the need to include in the Program of Safety Safety of Preschoolers New content (for example, the section "Baby and other people"). We must consider our environment as it is. Modern children need to teach special skills to avoid a wide variety of dangers. We must teach children to evaluate the environment, determine the potential danger or suspicious situation and adequately react to it.

Using fairy tales in raising the safe behavior of children

with strangers.

The child should understand what it can be dangerous in communicating with other people. We must tell children about the danger of contacts with strangers (people) adults. Most children believe that people with unpleasant appearance are dangerous, "Bearded Unidie" or unpleasantly dressed people. And young, well-dressed cute women, girls or young men can not harm the same as anyone with an open friendly smile. Here you will help fairy tales. The monster in the "Scarlet Flower" turned out to be a good enchanted prince. Cinderella was dressed in rags, stained with soot and ash, but was kind.

A good confirmation of the mismatch of pleasant appearance and good intentions is the "Tale of the Dead Tsarevne and Seven Bogatichikh" A.S. Pushkin, in which the evil stepmother attracted a good old woman and gave princess poisoned apple. And Tsarevna violated the rule of security: it is impossible to take a treat from strangers. Children need to remember that they should ask permission from parents or people who are guarding them before accepting candy or gift from someone.

Another typical dangerous situation of contact with unfamiliar people: an adult persuades a child to go with him somewhere, promising or show something interesting. You must teach children to say there are no people who want to lead them somewhere without the permission of parents. A typical example of what can happen, if you believe a gentle voice, an attractive promise of someone else is the Russian folk fairy tale "Cat, Rooster and Fox". A gentle voice of Lisa offered a rooster to look into the window, promising to give peas, invited to peer peas, which has nowhere to give, pick up millet, scattered on the road. All this soared the vigilance of the rooster. Three times he looked out the window and was captured three times with a fox, which she wanted to try the roasting meat.

In the situation of violent behavior from the adult (if they grab the hand, take on the hands, they throw in the car) children should know that they need to scream loudly, calling for help and attracting attention to others.

Every time a fox grabbed a cockerel, he shouted: "Lisa carries me for dark forests, for tall mountains! Cat brother, reversing me! "

And now let's remember the Russian folk fairy tale "Sister Alyonushka and Brantz Ivanushka". Why did the witch manage to drown Alyonushka? Yes, because she is with a completely unfamiliar woman who wore her affectionately, went to the river, violating the security rule: it is impossible to walk with unfamiliar people anywhere.

Children should understand that the danger lies not only on the street, but also at home. It is necessary to clarify the children that the door cannot be opened, even if a stranger has a gentle voice or he seems to be familiar to the parents, knows what their name is, and there are supposedly on their behalf. An example of the fact that from this may turn out, is the Russian folk fairy tale "Wolf and Seven Cats".

And in the fairy tale, S.perro "Red Cap" you can see several violations of security rules at once. First, the Red Hat stopped in the forest and began to talk to the Wolf (she did not know how dangerous), secondly, he told him where her grandmother lives ("Won in the village behind the mill, in the first house with the edge "), And thirdly, seeing that her grandmother does not look like us as usual, he lay down instead of calling someone from adults to help.

There is such a rule of security: parents should always know where children are located, and children can not go anywhere without parental permission . The kolobok in the Russian People's Flat Tale eponymous was gone to walk without demand and paid for it, having met the hetrut fox, which lounted speeches lured a kolobka to sit on his nose. The girl in the Russian folk fairy tale "Gusi-Swans" despite the punishment of the mother left the little brother of one near the house, and herself went to walk. It ended it by the fact that the brother was taken away the geese swans, and she had to look for him for a long time and put a lot of strength to return.
Gone alone in the forest girl from Russian folk fairy tale "Three bear" and got lost. The safety rule says: In order not to get lost, do not go to the forest one. And if you went to the forest, remember: in the forest you need to stay together. Masha from the Russian folk fairy tale "Masha and the Bear" and the starring from the Russian folk fairy tale "Stub and Fox" were in the forest are inattentive: a tree behind a tree, a bustice for a bush, and they lost her girlfriends.

You can talk about fairy tales for a long time. Many troubles in fairy tales could not happen if the heroes knew the elementary safety rules. But after all, it is not forgive to say: "The fairy tale is a lie, yes there is a hint in it: the good young lesson."

Therefore, teachers and parents need to use more often in their work on education in children of safe behavior with unfamiliar fairy tales.

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"Safe behavior on the street or how not to become a victim of violence"

One of the mistakes of upbringing is an unconditional submission to an adult person. We often talk to children: "Don't talk to adults so much!", "If an adult told you, then it is necessary to obey it." But at the same time, in the child it is necessary to raise distrust of unfamiliar and unfamiliar people.

On the street, children may be in unexpected situationThat is because they will react to it, their health, mental and physical condition will depend on.

Knowledge of rules of behavior on the street will help you find a way out of the desired position, and we can only teach this children - adults, parents.

Tell me and discuss with children every possible situation forcible strangers adult:

An unfamiliar adult persuades the child to go with him somewhere, promising to show something interesting, offering a toy, seeking familiar parents, and acts at their request (Mom asked you to bring you to her, let's go with me to mom, I will give you to her) ;

An unfamiliar adult opens the door of the car and invites you to ride with him;

An unfamiliar adult treats a child with candy, ice cream.

Ask a child if such a situation happens as you do:

Immediately kill;

Call a friend with you, see what the stranger wants to show;

Go to watch one;

In the process of discussion, explain that it is not necessary to talk to a stranger on the street, if a child is one or in the company of peers, but without adults.

It is dangerous to trust a stranger, if he persuades to go somewhere (in the movie, the park on the carousel), promises to show or give an interesting toy, treat ice cream, not to believe even if someone else's person seems to be familiar parents, says that he will take him to mom (dad, grandmother), which is waiting for him.

Learn with children the rules of behavior in a dangerous situation:

Do not talk to an unfamiliar person, do not answer his questions;

Do not agree to go anywhere with strangers, no matter how they persuade and whatever they offer;

Do not sit down to a stranger into the car, nor under any pretext;

Do not walk one in deserted places;

Do not believe the stranger, if he says that he is familiar with your parents (works together, mom instructed you to take you home), or offers something to buy or donate;

Do not walk with the onset of darkness;

If someone unfamiliar man drags you by the hand or wants to put in the car - shouthes, resist, call to the aid: "Help, a stranger sticks to me! For help!".

Education in a child's secure behavior skills often causes big problems Many parents. Trying to develop intelligent caution in small children when communicating with unfamiliar people, adults inevitably get up before the question: "What behavior of an unfamiliar person is permissible or, otherwise worthy"?

Some parents, not wanting to teach children to "scare strangers," trying to postpone the beginning of their studies. Therefore, they do not limit the communication of their three or four-year-old children with safe, from the parental point of view, adults.

Child, let's say cute talking with a blessing elderly woman. She also coarse candy. Why interrupt the conversation? Let the child know the world in the presence of parents!

It would seem, nothing dangerous in this situation: after all, everything was controlled.
The fact of the matter is that in this particular case, the child felt in complete safety and could form the next logical chain: "I communicate with an unfamiliar aunt who looks friendly and friendly, and nothing terrible happens."

The calm behavior of parents only strengthens him in the thought that communication with pleasantly looking adults is not dangerous.

The fact that it was the parents that secured his security may be a small child, unfortunately, was missed. Therefore, the next time, when the child is suitable, smiling, young woman in beautiful dress Or a man in a strict suit, the danger signal in the head of the child will not sound and communicate will take place. If these stranger or stranger will be experienced attackers, the consequences can be the saddest - the child can go "take a walk with a new friend."

Therefore, it is necessary to explain to parents, which is unusually important to inspire the child that strangers should not lead a long conversation with the child. They also do not have the right to touch the children. Maximum that is allowed is a smile, a brief greeting, encouraging a gesture.

Everything that goes beyond this brief communication should make the child tolerate.

Paul Statman, a reputable specialist in child safety, believes that the child must learn to expect decent behavior strangers. Then, if for any reason the moment comes when someone else's will behave inadequately, the child will work "internal signal", and he will most likely respond to selflessness in the manner. A child can call his parents loudly or other adults. It's about to leave somewhere with unfamiliar people, does not go at all.

How to teach a child to recognize adequate and inadequate behavior?
Only in the process of developing these skills. For example, a smiling man passes by mom and child.

This dialogue is possible:

Man: - Hello, girl!

Girl: - Hello!

Man: - What is your name?

A man stretches his hand to stroke the baby on his head.

Girl. - Julia!

Mum. - Sorry, please, we need to go.

Mom, not letting touching the child, going to leave.

Girl: - But I want to talk with a good uncle!

Mom: - We leave right now.

Man: - Do not worry you so! I have the most two daughters.
Baby, do you want to meet them?

Girl: - Of course I want!

Mom: - Sorry, but we teach your daughter proper behavior With strangers.
And now we leave.

Mom tightly takes a girl for his hand and leads from a friendly man.

Let's analyze this situation.

1. The first phrase of the man was completely neutral. A brief greeting is among the permissible actions, so Mom quietly reacted to the fact that her daughter greeted a stranger.
2. Already the second phrase of a man forced mom to alert. First, the interlocutor wanted to know the name of the girl. Secondly, most importantly, he tried to do this by way of Mom.
   It was possible to ask a woman: "Tell me, please, what is your charming daughter?" In this case, it is not necessary to call the name at all, but the question shows that the man respects the interlocutor and leaves the right to decide whether the name of the girl says it.
3. Girl, forgetting the rules safe communication, immediately calls his name, which is undesirable, since this man does not know this man with his daughter. If this is an attacker, he can come at the moment when the girl will play in the courtyard with girlfriends, and call it by name, staying outside the field of visibility look after the walk of parents. The child seeing him and deciding that Uncle is already among the friends, can run up to him and start a conversation, the consequences of which will depend on the vigilance of adults on the playground.
4. Mom immediately seeks to lead the daughter to alone discuss the safety rules with it. She does not give a man to touch the child, despite the fact that the girl is not afraid of this, it would seem friendly, touch. If you can afford to touch the baby now, the baby may form in the head of the baby that "good unidie and aunt can concern me." In the future, the child will not tell parents about such cases, because nothing will see anything forbidden.
5. The girl is trying to challenge the need to stop conversation. She supports a man, referring to the fact that he also has daughters of the same age. The woman politely and strongly continues to follow his behavior line and leads the child.

In the subsequent conversation, Mom, most likely, will be patiently and goodly to explain the daughter of safe behavior. If the conversation goes successfully, the girl will love herself for the fact that he immediately called her name.

What as a result?

1. The girl received an example of a polite, but consistent and safe behavior with unfamiliar people from Mom and once again assimilated that it was impossible to talk about himself. She also learned once again that it was impossible to allow unfamiliar people to touch themselves.
2. The baby in practice was convinced that the violation of the security rules established in the family is not allowed in any way.
3. Mom in practice showed her daughter, that she can always count on the mother's defense and support. For this young woman had to go to some discomfort and refuse to communicate an externally very decent unfamiliar person.
4. The man will later suit his mother, apologize for his sense behavior, will introduce himself and will suggest to introduce their daughters. A woman, making sure that a man in front of her really decent will allow her daughter to get acquainted with the peers, and after some time would even allow her to walk with girlfriends under the supervision of their vigilant dad.

A child who has clear benchmarks as to what is called the "worthy behavior of a stranger", will be able to distinguish unhealthy attention from the manifestation of friendliness. He can manifest a maximum of caution in the first case and not afraid in the second.

Do not spare the time for children, do with them!