Rules of behavior with strangers for children. How to form a child from a safe communication skills with unfamiliar people

The stranger is any person who comes in the absence of parents, grandparents and is trying to speak with you (sometimes calls you by name).

When communicating with an unfamiliar person:

• Never join a conversation with an unfamiliar man on the street.
• Do not agree to go anywhere with an unfamiliar person, do not sit down in the car. No matter how he persuaded you and whatever off.
• Never believe the stranger, if he promises to buy something or give you. Answer that you do not need anything.
• If an unfamiliar person persistently, took you by his hand or tries to lead, pull out and run away, shout out loudly, call to the rescue, take a ride, scratch, bite.
• About any such incident with you must tell parents, teacher and familiar adults.
• Strying is a person you don't know, even if he says that he knows you or your parents.

An unfamiliar person calls the door:

• In no case do not open the door until you look at the eye. If a person behind the door is not familiar with you and under different pretexts asks to open the door, call the neighbors and tell about it.
• Do not join a stranger in conversations. Remember that under the guise of a postman, a locksmith, etc. The attackers are trying to penetrate the apartment.
• If the stranger is trying to open the door, urgently call the police by calling 02, call the cause of the call and the exact address, then from the balcony or from the Zovi window to help familiar or neighbors.

Remember! Under no circumstances do not open the door to an unfamiliar person if you're alone at home.

An unfamiliar man in the entrance of the house:

• Do not come in the entrance, if a stranger is behind you. Take the look that you forgot something and lifting at the entrance.
• Do not come together and do not open it if someone unfamiliar is in the entrance. Get out of the entrance and wait until the stranger goes outside, after which they call the neighbors and ask them to check if there are no foreign on other floors.
• In the threat of attacks, raise the noise, attract the attention of neighbors (whistles, splits glass, calls and knocks in the door, shouts "Fire!", "Help!"), Try to jump out on the street.
• Being safe, immediately inform the police, tell the neighbors, parents.

Show attention and vigilance. Try to notice a possible danger and avoid it.

An unfamiliar man in the elevator:

• If the elevator called by you is an unfamiliar person, do not go into the cabin. Get away from the elevator and after some time calling the elevator again.
• If you still entered the elevator with a stranger, causing a suspicion, press the "Challenge Challenge" and "Stop" button at the same time so that the cabin stands in place with open doors. After the dispatcher response, click the button of the desired floor and cover the conversation with the dispatcher. The dispatcher hears you and if necessary, will cause the police and lifter.
• Do not stand in the elevator back to the passenger, watching its actions.
• When you try to attack a raise cry, noise, knocks on the walls of the elevator, protect any way. Try to click the "Dispatcher Call" button and any floor.
• If the doors opened, try to run out, call to help the neighbors. Being safe, immediately call the police and inform the signs of the attacker.

Remember! Come in the elevator, making sure that there is no foreign on site.

Safety on the street:

• Try to return home climbing.
• If you are delayed, be sure to call home to meet you.
• Move along the lit, crowded streets, preferably in the group of people.
• Avoid wasterees, parks, stadiums, dark yards, convinced, tunnels.
• In the threat of attacks, raise noise, shouts, call to the rescue, and boldly apply the means of self-defense.
• Refuse the offer of strangers to spend or ride you.
• If you notice that someone pursues you, watching him, go to the other side of the street; If the guessed confirmed - run to the lighted section of the street or where there are people.

If you are a hostage:

• Do not ask any questions, carry out all the requirements of terrorists.
• Do not resist, do not react to the actions of terrorists in relation to other hostages.
• Do not do sharp movements, if possible, move less.
• For any action, ask permission from terrorists.
• Do not try in any way to know about yourself on the will - in case of failure, it will lead to a deterioration in the conditions of detention.
• Try to establish human relations with terrorists.
• Remember everything that can help the special services (individuals of these people, their number, armament, location).
• During liberation, choose a place for any shelter and lying until the end of the shooting.
• When released, perform all the requirements of the employees of the special services.

Remember! By the hostage, keep calm, whatever happened. Try not to show your fear. How not to become a victim of scammers:

• Never accept the proposal to make a dubious, in your opinion the deal, even if it seems very profitable.
• By purchasing the scarce goods from hand, meet with the seller where you can consider it safely and without a rush to consider or try the acquired thing.
• When buying, before paying money, look again, pay the goods, paying without releasing it from the hands.
• Do not trust your belongings to unauthorized people.
• Do not take part in dubious prizes and lottery draws, especially on the street, in transitions, at the metro, at train stations, markets.
• Never play in gamblingEven with friends. Do not take into the game, the rules of which are not well known for you.
• Never agree to violate the norms of ethics and the law.

Behavior in the crowd:

• If you got into the crowd, choose a plan of behavior, addressing the situation.
• If the crowd got carried away to you, fasten on all buttons, hide extra objects and throw the bag, umbrella, etc., do not cling to your hands for any objects.
• Try not to fall. Hold your hands with a chest level with placed elbows, creating spaces in front of them, rejected the housing back, holding back the head that goes after you.
• If you fell - raise at any cost (wait for my feet under ourselves and get up in the course of the movement).
• If you can not stand, priest knees to the chest and close your head.
• Avoid in the crowd of the center and its edges, barriers in the course of movement, especially glass showcases.

Remember! Home Danger Crowds - panic. With a panic, people move chaotic, accumulate in narrow aisles, create congestion and traffic jams. A crush is formed, in which people are injured and die.

Most small children are trusting and easy to come to contact with unfamiliar people. There are often cases when the attackers simply lead to future victims from playgrounds. Featuring parents - protect the baby from dangerous strangers. And for this you need to teach him to react to attention on their part.

To tell the child about risks associated with unfamiliar people, you can at any age. But to understand you and adequately apply the knowledge gained in practice, he will be able to about three years. At this age, the child is already able to reason, but is still very naive and trusting. It is not very naive and trusting. After all, it is necessary to prohibit any communication with strangers in your absence. It is necessary to explain that when you're near, baby safe and can talk to who wants. If you are not - talking and even more so to leave someone dangerous.

In no case can the child be scared that bad behavior He will take his uncle with a bag or Baba Yaga. In the event that a stranger really grably grabbies, he can dry and disagree what to do or perceive the abduction as a punishment for disobedience, and not even try to free themselves.

Children younger age It is difficult to perceive serious information on the rumor. In order for the baby to remember how to behave properly, the most dangerous situations can be depicted in a game form. For this, parents can show the kidnappers themselves or play dolls with a child.

Most children are even relative to adults, in 6-8 years old naive believe that dangerous strangers are terrible and from the very beginning they seem suspicious. Explain that the attacker can be quite nice and even a Toddler's one year old. Therefore, dangerous not only when the child is enough and dragged in an unknown direction, but when:

• Offer to ride a car or go to buy candies;
• Ask to help catch a lost kitten or show needed Home;
• Call on the door and asked to open on behalf of the electrician, plumbing, etc.;
• They say that mom was delayed and asked a colleague or a friend to pick up a child from the site or school.

The child should understand that any communication with strangers is potentially dangerous, so you should always follow the instructions of the parents in such a situation.

Rules for the child's behavior with unfamiliar people

Each child, which at least for a minute remains unattended by parents or other adults, should know the rules that will help him avoid danger when communicating with strangers:

• Never go anywhere with unfamiliar people. We are talking not only about adults, it can be children. If new boy In the playground, it says that in the neighboring yard is more fun and offers to go to see, you need to refuse. If an unfamiliar girl says that it is afraid to pass by the dog near the house and asks to spend, do not do this.
• Not to open the door to strangers. Whoever they see and whatever they say, it is necessary to immediately call their parents and tell about it. If there are neighbors at home, you can call them and ask to figure out.
• Do not allow unfamiliar people to touch yourself. If a person approaches or stretches his hand, it is better to run away immediately.
• Do not approach other heavy cars and all the more not to sit in them. If the driver or passenger is asked to show the way, this can be done, indicating the direction by hand from afar.

All parents try to grow children with good and responsive. But for the sake of his security, you need to tell the child that he is not obliged to help an unfamiliar person, even if this requires a social media. For example, a cute old woman asks to help her bring purchases to a nearby house. Of course, a well-brought up child will want to help his grandmother. But much safer will advise elderly woman Ask for help from someone from adults and call parents by going to a safe distance.

The child should clearly remember the algorithm of actions in case a stranger speaks with him:

• Evaluation of the situation. The child should know that any stranger is potentially dangerous. But, if he is in a well-known place and parents near, and a person does not attempt to approach, you can not panic ahead of time.
• Compliance with distance. It is usually more or less secure consider a distance of two meters. Show the child as it is, measuring the centimeter ribbon on the floor, and explain that if a person is approaching, it is necessary to move or run away from it.
• Termination of communication. Most attackers are good psychologists, they know how to find an approach to the child and speak him, touching vigilance. Therefore, for any attempts to start a conversation, children must answer "now I will ask your parents" or something like that, to move to a safe distance and / or call adults.
• Care. If the stranger tries to impose talk or lead the child, he must immediately stop the conversation and leave a dangerous place. But it is necessary to do it carefully. If in order to get home, the child must go into an empty entrance, dark monitor, etc., it is better not to risk, and approach familiar adults and talk about the situation. If there is no familiar anyone nearby, you can ask for help from a police station, a security guard or a seller in the store, anyone who is clearly not related to the alleged attacker.

The most dangerous - if the attacker has already grabbed the child and drags. Tell us that in this case you should not only try to free yourself by any ways, but also call for help. Be sure to shout that it is a foreign person, and he kidnaps the child, otherwise the surrounding can consignment as a joke or a family scene.

Try to tell the child as you can tell about the hazards that lie. It does not mean intimidating, it is necessary to warn and prepare. Remember that your story can save the child life.

Yalginsky Children's House-School

Rules for communication

with strangers

Prepared: Libysova T.I.,

educator of family number 1

Objectives: Teach children with proper, safe behavior with unfamiliar people; Forming the ability to fulfill the rules of behavior with unfamiliar people.

Tasks: to tell that the rules of communication with familiar and unfamiliar people should be different; explain what caution is and how to be able to comply with it in the right situations to ensure its safety;

1. Conversation on the topic.

How do you understand the expression "unfamiliar man"?

(Unknown; such about which there is no information).

Who can you call a familiar person?

(A friend - the one who knew before, known).

Is there a danger when communicating with familiar people? With strangers?

Remember what cases of communicating with unfamiliar people were in your life, where it happened, as they did then, and think how would they do now?

The stranger is any person who comes to you on the street or comes to the house in the absence of adults and trying to speak with you (sometimes calls you by name.) Sometimes a meeting with a stranger can be dangerous to health and life.

Let's call the quality that will help us to protect yourself from dangers?

(Caution).

What does it mean to be careful?

(Careful - providing for possible danger, not reckless).

How to communicate unfamiliar people?

Let's add suggestions and make caution rules when communicating with unfamiliar people.

Do not believe…

Do not follow ...

Do not get into the car ...

Do not invite home ...

Do not boast friends ...

Do not delay the dothemna ...

Remember the rules of behavior with unfamiliar people.

• Do not go anywhere with unfamiliar people.
• Do not sit in someone else's car.
• With the onset of darkness go home.
• Do not change the return route from school home.
• Always tell adults about your plans for the day.
• Small children should not walk around the city without adults.

Let us discuss various situations of communication with unfamiliar people.

1. You are one at home, call the door. You open the door ...

2. You are one at home, call the door. You ask: "Who is there?". Behind the door answer that they came to test the gas. Your actions?

3. An unfamiliar man is suitable for you to the street and asks to spend it, show some street. Your actions?

4. A stranger spoke to you. What to do?

(Apologize and pass by. Do not join the conversation, whatever you say (invite to play, watch a film, listen to music, offer to show a dog or other animals), because no one can explain all the tricks of the villain in advance. The view that do not hear the words facing you).

And if you do not depart?

(It is necessary to break down and shout: "I don't know it!". Let it hear others adults. They will help and cause the militia).

5. Unfamiliar man On the street asks you to buy him in the kiosk of the cigarette. Your actions?

6. Neighbor Aunt Lyuba asks to buy products for her in the store. Your actions?

The reasons for choosing the guys of certain solutions in various situations of communication are analyzed. It is specified in which situations should be careful.

The educator summarizes the discussion of situations, reads a poem.

Do not open the door unfamiliar

Words and gifts do not trust

Say: "Soon mom comes from work,

Herself if you need, you have a door of heating. "

Play in the yard near the house,

Play on a familiar platform,

But construction and street - not for the game!

And the rule is for all the defers.

I wear the keys to the apartment

And I do not ask the door to open anyone.

I do not trust my key,

After all, he wakes my doors!

Treat us often

Just remember every time:

Take a treat only at acquaintances,

And not in strangers, with the form of modest and good.

2. Outcome classes.

Draw prohibitive signs that could be used in communication situations with unfamiliar people.

Literature

1. Education of schoolchildren. - 2008. - № 2. - p. 46.

2. Zuzhik: Additional educational program For students junior School / COST: Kalinichenko TN, Serdyuk E.I., Slice N.N., Kovalevskaya L.I. // Children's health. 2009. - № 3.

Topic: "Rules of behavior when communicating with unfamiliar people"

Objectives: Teach children right, safe behavior; Develop a sense of caution, courage and resourcefulness when the hazard appears.

Structure occupation

1. Conversation on the topic

- How do you understand the expression "be responsible for your business"?

Does the responsible behavior assume the ability to answer for itself, its security and the safety of others?

Is it possible to agree with the opinion that responsibility is a voluntarily commitment to the consequences of actions and actions?

Is there a danger to your health when communicating with unfamiliar people? In addition to normal people, there are people from the criminal world in society, which lives at the expense of others, extracting themselves with crimes.

What is translated by law? (Violating it.)

What are the kinds of crimes? (Attempt on property, robbery, robbery, hooliganism, crimes related to drug addiction.)

In relation to children, violence, beating, robbery, hooligan action may be committed. Normal people consider this kind of crime as highly immoral and unacceptable.

2. Rules of behavior with unfamiliar people

- Stranger "This is any person who comes in the absence of parents, grandparents, and trying to speak with you (sometimes calls you by name).

REMEMBER!

• Do not go anywhere with unfamiliar people.
• Do not sit in someone else's car.
• With the onset of darkness go home.
• Do not change the return route from school home.
• Always tell parents about their plans for the day.
• Small children should know the rules of safe behavior and do not walk around the city without adults.

3. ABC security

RULES OF BEHAVIOR

In criminogenic situations

When communicating with an unfamiliar man

• Never join a conversation with an unfamiliar man on the street
• Do not agree to go anywhere with an unfamiliar person, do not get into the car, no matter how he persuaded you and whatever suggests.
• Never believe the stranger, if he promises to buy something or give you. Answer that you do not need anything.
• If an unfamiliar person persistently, took you by his hand or tries to lead, pull out and run away, shout out loudly, call to the rescue, take a ride, scratch, bite.
• About any such incident with you must tell parents, teacher and familiar adults.

An unfamiliar person calls the door

• In no case do not open the door
• Call your neighbors and tell them about it.
• Do not join conversations with a stranger. Remember that under the guise of a postman, a locksmith, an employee of the RAU attackers are trying to penetrate the apartment.
• If the stranger tries to open the door, urgently call the police, call the reason for the call and the exact address, then from the balcony or from the Zovi window to help.

Unfamiliar man in the entrance of the house

• Do not come in the entrance, if a stranger is behind you.
• Do not come to the apartment and do not open it if someone unfamiliar is in the entrance
• In the threat of an attack, raise noise, attract the attention of neighbors (whistles, splits glass, call and knock on the door).

Unfamiliar man in elevator

• If the elevator caused by you is an unknown person, do not go into the cabin.
• If you entered the elevator with a strangerCaused by suspicion, press at the same time the two "Dispatcher Call" and "Stop" buttons so that the cabin stands in place with open doors. Tie a conversation with the dispatcher, he will cause the police.
• Do not stand in the elevator back to the passenger, watching its actions.
• When you try to attack, raise the noise, shouts, knock on the walls of the elevator, defend, try to click the "Dispatcher Call" button.

4. Outcome

– What to do if a stranger spoke to you? (Apologize and pass by. Do not join the conversation, whatever you say - because no one can explain all the tricks of the villain in advance.)

– And if you do not depart? (It is necessary to break down and shout: "I don't know him!". Let it hear others adults. They will help and cause the police.)

Responsible behavior will allow not to harm your safety and health, as well as the health and safety of others!

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Class hour Prepared Arzamasov Zhanna Viktorovna Teacher of English language, class teacher 7 A class

Purpose: Formation of students of conscious and responsible attitude to personal security issues. Tasks: Consideration of situations in which the danger may arise in everyday life; summarizing the knowledge of children according to the rules of behavior in extreme situationsensuring the safety of their life and health in modern conditions Streets, transport, nature, life.

"Rules of behavior when communicating with strangers"

When communicating with an unfamiliar person, never join the conversation with an unfamiliar man on the street do not agree to go anywhere with an unfamiliar person, do not get into the car, no matter how he persuaded you and whatever off. Never believe the stranger, if he promises to buy something or give you. Answer that you do not need anything. If an unfamiliar person persistently, took you by his hand or tries to lead, pull out and run away, shout out loudly, call to the rescue, take a ride, scratch, bite. About any such incident with you must tell parents, teacher and familiar adults.

An unfamiliar person calls the door by no means open the door to call the neighbors and tell them about it. Do not join conversations with a stranger. Remember that under the guise of a postman, a locksmith, an employee of the RAU attackers are trying to penetrate the apartment. If the stranger tries to open the door, urgently call the police, call the reason for the call and the exact address, then from the balcony or from the Zovi window to help.

An unfamiliar man in the entrance of the house does not come to the entrance, if a stranger is behind you. Do not come to the apartment and do not open it if someone unfamiliar is in the entrance in the threat of an attack, raise noise, attract the attention of neighbors (whistles, breaking the glass, call and knock on the door).

An unfamiliar man in the elevator if an unknown person is located in the elevator called by you, do not go into the cabin. If you entered the elevator with a stranger causing a suspicion, press at the same time the two "Dispatcher Call" and "Stop" buttons so that the cabin stands in place with open doors. Tie a conversation with the dispatcher, he will cause the police. Do not stand in the elevator back to the passenger, watching its actions. When you try to attack, raise the noise, shouts, knock on the walls of the elevator, defend, try to click the "Dispatcher Call" button.

Safety on the street: Try to return home climbing. If you are delayed, be sure to call home to meet you. Move along the lit, crowded streets, preferably in the group of people. Avoid wasterees, parks, stadiums, dark yards, convinced, tunnels. In the threat of attacks, raise noise, shouts, call to the rescue, and boldly apply the means of self-defense. Refuse the offer of strangers to spend or lend you. If you notice that someone pursues you, watching him, go to the other side of the street; If the guessed confirmed - run to the lighted section of the street or where there are people.

We are joying not what surrounds us, and our attitude towards the surrounding. (Francois de Larochefuko).

Valery Fadeev

We will start not as usually starting the final programs. Not from politics, not from official events. June 1 celebrated the International Children's Day. And what is the most important thing for us? Our children, our grandchildren, their security is what we consider fundamentally important. Began summer vacation and children more often than during school yeargranted themselves. Parents, I have no doubt about it, learn: Never talk to unfamiliar people and especially nowhere to go anywhere. And if you call the help loudly. Just badly we learn. Look at our experiment. I'll say right away: we conducted it under the control of security specialists, child psychologists and with the consent of the parents.

At the playground, parents do not pay attention to him - a young guy, decently dressed - is he the same "suspicious type"? Well, what can happen in one minute? Return to the car, go to the store - Familiar? Here is a girl leaves junior BrothersTo say hello to the girlfriend.

In fact, the sister of boys from shelter monitors the experiment in live air: Does the children agree to the stranger's persuasion and leave with him a playground. In the role of the criminal - a child safety expert.

Frightening result: 12 seconds - and the boys themselves run into the trap. It is clear that it was conditionally everything. It was a game. No, terribly really. In the family how many times it is pronounced. In fact, it turned out - just all!

And this is no longer an experiment. Entries from video surveillance cameras in the city of Otradnaya Leningrad region. At the station, a man shows someone on 10-year-old Ruslan Queen, but he already leads him to his home with large packages of products. At the interrogation, the 35-year-old detained calmly tells how the boy killed and hid a part of the body.

Mom Ruslan and now sometimes believes that he is about to return from school, just played somewhere. That day does not come out of the head.

"We went to the store. I really wanted to take it with you, but decided: let it goes. If he had returned this time ago, I would take it with myself, I would call, "says the mother of the deceased Ruslan Queen Evgenia Alikulov.

Almost all the children in this group would have trusted a kind on Andrei Chikatilo - pedophile and a serial killer. Or Alexander Pichushkin, known as the Bittsev maniac, brutally killed 50 people. A man who seemed to the police officer was arrested in Kamyshin at the beginning of this year.

Miracle - the 11-year-old Anya saved after four days of search, they noticed the police during apartments. Fortunately, the girl was not a victim of sexual violence, but survived a nightmare.

Parents have leggings: hug, stroke the head, make sure - alive! Every six hours a child disappears in Russia, which will never find. But, it seemed, all the children know the Iron Rule - not to talk with strangers.

The same result is again and again - nine out of ten children during the experiment go to the car of someone else's person. The child feels that all this is wrong, but isn't it politely refusing?

"You do not have the right to talk unfamiliar people - this is the main thing that you need to remember!" - explains mom.

The world is not divided into good and evil, but on their own and strangers, teach children in safety training. And if someone else's starting to speak, and even more so taking hand, the reaction must be worked out until automatism. Parents are worried, and if after such lessons, children will cease to trust people at all?

"We teach children, for example, do not cross the road to red light, it does not mean that our child will be afraid of cars. A stranger does not have to approach you. If he approached, he also, he is either a non-love man, or he is a criminal, but you have the right to be impolite with him, "explains the child safety expert Leah Sharov.

This week was opened summer camps. Educators explain to parents: a popular reception, when a child can trust a stranger, if he knows the "Family Password", do not guarantee protection. After all, even the special agents fail missions.

During our experiment, only 8-year-old Ruslan remembered that Mom said. Single maximum security - only if you all the time you see your child! And then the remaining techniques never need anyone, so you want to believe.