He betrayed and I love. Lyrics he betrayed me - he betrayed

Date: 19.07.2019

You know, when your loved one says that you will always be together, that he will never give you, will not change, you believe in these words with all your heart, but time passes and you will know that this person has betrayed you. it hurts you very much, it hurts you very much, because you can no longer imagine life without this person, but nothing remains, just take it and leave.

Stop the time I can't run
You killed the meaning and killed the dream
Broke my heart more I do not like
Understand the meaning of life is better to be alone
All hopes are in the past, but not in the future.
I will leave on purpose, without turning off the light
You killed me, made me silent
I throw you, I make you suffer

Honey i love you
Although I knew that in vain
What did it all for you
My songs, poems are not finished yet
But it means wrong
Once you- I'm unthinkable
The walls of the road are made
I'm leaving
Could just say: I don't like it anymore
It became harder to breathe
The heart is no longer beating
In the head one phrase
Just no where to go
I'm leaving, I'm leaving.

Favorite goodbye
I'm leaving, no longer want to tempt fate
Believe that there is no, lie to yourself that you love
After all, just let go
Yes, I know, it will be difficult
They say time heals
No, I talk
I can not forget you that evening
Or maybe a week, month and year
Nobody will return our love.

Chorus:
I want to forget you
Don't love you
All my thoughts are in captivity
I can not go on
Let me go forever
Give me the key to the lock.
Shut the door, leave
I can not go on.
I want to forget you
Don't love you
All my thoughts are in captivity
I can not go on
Let me go forever
Give me the key to the lock.
Shut the door, leave
I can not go on.
I want to forget you
Don't love you
All my thoughts are in captivity
I can not go on
Let me go forever
Give me the key to the lock.
Shut the door, leave
I can not go on.

I’ll calm down your room without you
But still it hurts now alone
I don't know what to do and where to go
You became a barrier in my way
I remember it all seemed yesterday.
Scenes about us, just closing my eyes
You played love, but I could love
And all you forgot
I managed to save. It is a betrayed you. You can’t really be very painful, you can’t be very painful.

Stop time will not be able to escape
You killed
Severed heart more I do not like
I understand the meaning of life.
All hopes in the past
I purposely leave without turning off light
You killed me silence
I 'll throw, I' ll make suffer

Sweetheart I love you
Although he knew that nothing
What did it all for you
My songs, poems not appended
But then oshibno
Once you- I unthinkable
Walls road brought
I'm leaving
I could simply say: already do not like
It became harder to breathe
It is not the heart beats
At the head of a phrase
Just do not go
I "m leaving, I" m leaving.

Favorite goodbye
I'm going
To believe in what you love
After all, just let go
Yes, I know
They say time heals
No, I contradict
I can not forget you have that evening
Or maybe a week, month and year
Our love has no one returns.

Chorus:
I want to forget you
I understand you do not like
All my thoughts captive
I can not go on
Let me forever
Give me the key to the castle
I slam a door, leaving
I can not go on.
I want to forget you
I understand you do not like
All my thoughts captive
I can not go on
Let me forever
Give me the key to the castle
I slam a door, leaving
I can not go on.
I want to forget you
I understand you do not like
All my thoughts captive
I can not go on
Let me forever
Give me the key to the castle
I slam a door, leaving
I can not go on.

Without you, my peace I will erase your number
Yet now the one hurt
Where to go
You have become an obstacle in my way
If it was yesterday
Scenes about us barely covering his eyes
Do you love playing
And all that you have forgotten
I was able to save.

Hello, I am writing to you a second time in the hope of getting an answer.
Married 21 years. I am 41, he is 44. I thought that everything was good. And suddenly I find out that for 9 months now my husband has been cheating on me with a 24-year-old girl. Horror, pain, tears, tantrums. He said that he loved me, he did not want to leave the family, he stopped communicating with his mistress immediately. After that there were 5 months of my struggle with myself. I love him, but I can't make myself forget and forgive everything. During this time, there was not a single day that I did not think about his betrayal, did not scroll through all these events in my head, did not ask myself for the hundredth time the question "How could he?"
In relations with him, periods of normal communication were replaced by scandals. Moreover, any of my questions with regards to these events were perceived with hostility and raised to them in a terrible scandal, with a subsequent attempt to leave home. I held, said that I needed him. This is true, life without him, I can not imagine.
And now, after 5 months, I find a phone, bought in secret from me, to communicate with her. It turns out that all this time, he constantly and very closely communicated with her. Negotiations were several times a day. Confessions of love and everything else, as it should be between lovers. There were no meetings, because she lives in another city, where he used to be often at work, and then I banned these trips. Talking on the phone and declaration of love is not a betrayal. He says he did it because we had a strained relationship. And he was pleased to communicate with her. But he told her that he loved her, but he told me the same thing. I just do not know what to do. In fact, he betrayed me 2 times. First, physically and morally, then only morally. At the same time, I told him that for me, emotional betrayal is just as terrible as physical, i.e. he knew very well what was hurting me. How to be? I can not believe him. And how to live without trust? He betrayed me so easily twice, so he can do it again?

Svetlana, Rostov-on-Don, 41 years

Answer:

Family psychologist

Hello Svetlana.

"How to be? I can't believe him. And how can you live without trust? He betrayed me so easily twice, so he can still do this?" You're right. The probability that a person will betray you again is great. I do not know how to live without trust. The question is - why do you live with a person who has betrayed you, whom you do not trust, who has offended you, deceived and continues to deceive? What for? What is good about this relationship, what do you get in them, why are you ready to put up with possible deception and betrayal? You cannot control what he will never do again. After all, if in your relationship the situation is such that it led to betrayal — without a qualitative change in your relationship with him, they will again lead to the same situation. Something does not suit him, something is not enough for him - and only he knows this - why he needs another person. And therefore you can decide whether you are ready to put up with a situation of uncertainty and possible deception from this person, or there are things in YOUR life that are more precious to you - your comfort, your feelings, your life principles, for which you will change your life.

Sincerely, Moskova Maria Valerievna.

I despaired, my hands fall. 8 years ago I fell in love with a married man and allowed myself to be happy with him. I did not hope for anything, I just wanted the warmth and care he so insistently offered. Then my mother died of cancer, and his father, I wanted spiritual support, so I threw myself into the pool with my head. We have been together all these years, I loved him so much in my heart. At first, we carefully concealed our relationship, but then kind people whispered to his wife about us, hell began. She plagued me and him, threats, scandals, fights ... I left a hundred times, although I could not breathe without him. But he fell at his feet, cried, begged to return. So we tormented another 5 years. During this time, his marriage, as he said, has become obsolete, he said that he hates his wife, that he will surely divorce, because he does not want to see her, only asked to wait until his children grow up. But at the same time he began to drink. Hard drinking For weeks he disappeared, did not call, did not write, did not answer the calls, and I didn’t call, because he was there, next to her ... As a result, he began to drink and disappear for months. He was even treated in the clinic. It's so scary, a man from a good family, a successful businessman and a reliable partner who has not drunk beer before, has become a drunkard who hasn’t remembered me for months. I could not stand it and left forever. But the thing is that he left my savings, which I set aside for a rainy day, I gave them to him for preservation. I want to add that God punished me for this connection in full! Over the years, my mother died, my father had a brain tumor, his brother's family collapsed, he lost his home, now he is homeless abroad (he was married to a foreigner), and I have no money to pick him up. All the money goes to the maintenance and treatment of his father, to help his brother, I have debts, I am torn. And that seems to be a bright ray! I met a man, he was crazy about me, he was wonderful, he was calling to get married. I am pleased with this turn, but when he hugs and kisses me, my ex is in front of my eyes. I understand that I can not live without him, I want him to hug me. But my ex just left, started drinking and was gone. He avoids meeting with me and communication, and for all my prayers to return my money to me simply remains silent. I don’t have my own dwelling, I don’t have enough salary to pay for everything. He betrayed me, but I still adore him. How can I forget it? How can I survive in this chaos, with a sick and already mad father in my arms? How to start smiling again and stop howling in the pillow? Increasingly, the thought comes that I want to die, but what will happen to my father and brother? After all, only I can help them! I'm in a trap and slowly losing my mind. Help me.

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Old Maid, age: 32/04/20/2015

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You know, my dear, "old maid" - it sounds very scary. I, too, are 32 years old, and recently my husband left for another, left with his daughter for 9 years. Well grieved, of course, cried .. and life goes on. And there is still hope for family happiness. Not everything is as bad as it seems. There is a chance to start a new life. And change is always for the better))
Would you go to the site Perezhit.ru go - read articles, tips, psychologists, tips wise with the experience of women who survived the break in relations. Your eyes will open in a good way. It happened to me. And thank God.
I suspect you have a real love affair. And we must get rid of it, otherwise life will not be a joy. And then, of course, you cannot build happiness on someone else’s misfortune, you understood everything correctly. If you are baptized and believe - go to confession, repent. The Lord will forgive, and your soul will feel better, calmer, you'll see.
Man his, new, good - do not lose. Take care of the light that is given above. You can still become a beautiful, loving wife and happy mom.
Throw away bad thoughts from yourself, especially thoughts of death. I advise you to read this article here:
Hold on, my good, fight for your happiness, do good to other people. Everything will work out for you, the Lord will help.

Olga, age: April 32/2015

Hello, you have already written in the first answer that you have a love relationship. And judging because you feel this feeling - deep down you yourself understand that it is disastrous, but still not fatal. you can overcome it and be happy, many women have successfully come out of this state, you will succeed too. And stop cheating yourself, mom left cancer, because she has such a fate, her brother got divorced, because he himself did not take care of his relationship. They are your relatives, but you cannot influence their lives with your actions. Let's be realistic. And it is good that you have come to this site, read the articles here, reflect on the information, go to the Survive.ru website. In general, get together, drive away the despair, understand that what is happening with you is a disease that needs to be cured. Everything will be fine!

Altavista, age 26/20/04/2015

It seems to me that in this situation it is important to understand that a woman in such a relationship becomes the object of manipulation. That everything is really very simple: if I really love, I stay with a person forever. There is no problem, and there are no questions. For you, there is no question - to nurse your father or not. So here. If for all these years he has only spoken about his love, but has done nothing to live with you, then this is not love. It is comfortable, it is pleasant, it is such a "jolt" emotional. But no more than that. And we, women, take all this for love, being, in fact, in the networks of deception, convincing ourselves that our beloved feels for us the same feelings as we do for him. This is not true.
Well, is it worth it to worry about a person who did not love you? No need to attribute any high feelings to him. They were not there. If there were, he would behave differently, he would show respect for you. Or they would leave you alone, realizing that he cannot reciprocate you and be with you or marry.
Indeed, do not build your happiness on someone else's misfortune. Well, we must try to forget all this quickly. To understand that these feelings are just an obsession, intoxication with illusion. And women are very gullible, and can live for years in such experiences. But do not do this. Because this man acted badly towards you. He did not love anyone - neither you, nor his wife, nor children. Otherwise I would not do that.
We must look for normal, healthy relationships. Let it not arise such feelings, but this relationship is honest, and who have a future.
It is not necessary that there was such a direct passion. This is not the key to a happy family life. The main thing is that a person respect you, and would see a person in you, and not an object of manipulation.
It seems to me, it is necessary to rejoice that you escaped from these abnormal relationships. It is a great happiness that all this has passed.
No need to think about death. Do what depends on you. Help father, support brother. If there is an opportunity to marry a decent man who loves and appreciates you - then why not?

Olya, age: 42/04/20/2015

Work on the bugs! In the future, give the savings to the bank at interest. Now you understand that you will not return the money, you just want to establish contact with the former. But do not do this! Understand that a lot of men who live in two families, it suits them, because they are so comfortable! You could not influence the situation, he is an adult, you chose the path of self-destruction. Neither the wife, nor you, or the dispensary will not help until the person himself wants to stop. You do not notice other men, because you live in the hope that the former will return to you and everything will be the same - he, the wife, you. Let go of these thoughts! Open your heart! Perhaps not this man who you have just met is your destiny, but still look closer. What if they didn’t notice their happiness! In any case, I wish you not to live in the past, take off your rose-colored glasses, stop dreaming of a person who does not deserve you, but build your life, get married, have a baby.

Irina, age: 04/27/2015

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